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No U in love

In Insight and Experience, Love, Sex and Sexuality by John Ptacek0 Comments

Love is where you are not.   It would bomb as a pick-up line, but it’s a concept of love worth pondering. They are the words of Jiddu Krishnamurti, a renowned spiritual teacher who travelled the world in the twentieth century extolling the merits of self-inquiry. At first the statement …

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Staying in love: the hard part

In Love, Sex and Sexuality by John Ptacek0 Comments

Love is not for the faint of heart; at least not the kind that’s got any staying power. Staying in love can often be the hard part.   I had the jeweller engrave the round gold pendant with the words ‘Love, John’. A thin cross-hatched border framing the words made them …

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Tantric relationship – how is it different from other relationships?

In Community and Relationship, Love, Sex and Sexuality by Living Now0 Comments

A tantric relationship is a balanced, healthy, sexual partnership with a deeply committed, conscious, loving and open-hearted bonding connection, resulting in a higher chance of longevity. A tantric relationship is a conscious creation – where both actively choose the kind of relationship they desire to create. Both decide what it …