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Dear Fellow Travellers
Wednesday, 01 September 2010 00:00

ElizSoul – is that a scary word for you? I know lots of people are freaked out by the Big G (both the word and the concept of God) – just because of previous associations with the church, which they’d rather not make. I sense that soul is tarred with the same feathers for many until they learn that the word ‘soul’ is a convenient way to picture a part of you which does not die but which carries on in some form after death (the ‘people’ to whom psychics might be relating) and then reincarnates and carries on its merry way.

In case you’re having difficulty with the notion of life after death, whether the vehicle be named ‘soul’ or otherwise, I’ll point you in the direction of a new column we are commencing this issue, called ‘Two of a kind’. Two vibrant healers, Carmel Bell and Melissa Hocking, are interviewing each other. We couldn’t stop them talking of course ;-), and as the column is new, we’ve indulged them – I think you’ll enjoy what they have to say, despite its length. Now the reason I’m suggesting you read that column is that you’ll read how Carmel was dead for 47 minutes (not during the interview). She (one of her non-physical bodies, and likely her soul or at least orchestrated by her soul) was able to contact her husband lying in the bed next to her now dead body. Had she had no soul, nothing other than a physical body, she wouldn’t be here today. Heaps of people do accept this notion, especially amongst our readers, but there are some who have bad associations, as I said, and sometimes they need a bit more proof. It is hard for logic to work when emotions cloud our reason, isn’t it?

Trust and fear – two biggies for us when we do get caught up with life’s dramas. They are explored in the reader round-table. I hope you too are enjoying the reader round-table experience. Do drop us a line about that and also consider contributing.

Sadly this issue we are missing Jost’s article on the three treasures. His clinic is too busy for him to be able to provide an article a month it seems – so we might have to wait two months between them from now. We’re also missing Raym’s column, ‘Urban shaman’, and also mine on ‘Navigating two worlds’ – they will also be back next issue. (Oh, that is, as long you do your part and send me a question to answer.) Indeed all our columns go better with contributors!

Soul plays quite a part in this September issue. Paul Perfrement shows so many deep and wonderful means by which we can aid the healing process for our soul in his article about caring for the undefended soul. Derek Ellard gives us a lovely visualisation of water for meditating, and at the same time amuses and delights us with his wordsmith skills. Chip Richards, another wordsmith extraordinaire, opens our soul’s desires for us, to bring concepts from head to heart and beyond, transporting us into deeper levels of experience in life. Dr Darren Weissman explains his method to help our soul awakens to its authentic expression of its truest self. I tried it the other day and it is really good – deceptively so – and very quick and easy. Sounds like a recipe. Actually I summarised it in point form so that you can follow the method easily, after you’ve read it fully in the body of the article first to get the nuances, of course. So, yes, there is a recipe there for you, but the effect will be much more long-lived than a soufflé, though hopefully as light and breathtaking as the best chef’s.

Do you agree that everything happens for a reason? Have a look at the article called, ‘Nothing is wasted’ by Noelle Sterne. Give her exercise a go, and I think you might be convinced. Sometimes we get our heads too far into the recipe or even the soufflé mix itself, and we cannot see what we’re creating. I know. I do it all the time. I’ve just been as ‘sick as a dog’ while creating this magazine and wonder why I created that hard job getting my dish into the oven. In 21 years I’ve never had ‘flu like it, and definitely not coinciding with the production week. I can see that I should have given up and gone to bed for one day early but did not, and as a result I just got sicker and sicker. I’ve had some ahas already, but I’m confident that they will keep coming for a while yet.

Carmel Bell, now alive and well, mentioned to me that she discovered while she was dead that we’re meant to be happy and carefree here in this life, but we get caught up in the drama of it and forget to be happy. Going back to my soufflé analogy, it’s perhaps that we panic that the soufflé doesn’t rise like it should, or one side seems to have a dent in it, and we focus on that. If, instead of worrying about the appearances or the mechanics of the dish, we’d have stopped and eaten it when hot from the oven, we’d have all been delighted with its flavour and would have felt quite content. The lesson? Remember to keep life in perspective and have a laugh at the dents.

 

With love

Jewell

 

 

 

 
Dear Fellow Travellers
Thursday, 01 July 2010 00:00
 ElizIt is our 21st birthday this month, our first publication having come out in July, 1989. Expectations are that we have a big birthday bash when we are 21 – we’ve finally come of age and we can let our hair down and celebrate in grand style. However, this little magazine that you hold in your hand is anything but grand in size. In total it is 32 pages, and that is the size we started with in 1989.

The reason it is so small is that there were not enough ads to print more pages. Because this is a free magazine, we have to ensure that the pages are paid for with ad revenue. Right now the revenue has been affected by winter, end of financial year and the Mind Body Spirit season (as people divert their promotion dollars to their booths). So midyear is always smaller for us, but, on top of that, so many people are now having a flurry with the internet.

So, in terms of size, we’ve come full circle, but in terms of content I believe we have actually come of age. When we publish less pages we naturally are forced to give you less articles, but they are all really good quality. So instead of giving you a Cadbury family-sized block of chocolate, you have a little packet of Lindt balls here. Relish the articles; roll them around in your mouth a while before swallowing.

These articles are mature because of the concepts they present. Back in the ‘early days’ we needed to spell things out more simply. It seems we were all being introduced to these ideas and needed to progress little by little, exploring first one path and then another. Then, when we oldies had a certain amount of knowing under our belts, the next generation suddenly picked up stuff that we’d taken ages to discover and experiment with.

I think that the theme that emerged in this issue, heart and soul, is almost ‘the answer to the universe’. Perhaps we’ll cover love next issue, as I believe that is the very answer, but, for this month, connecting with our hearts, finding and listening to our souls, connecting with the heart of the mother, and giving from the heart, are beautiful ways to go within, for that is what the winter months call us to do.

True Indigo’s behest is for us to learn to give, and that the way to abundance is by giving – rather than wanting. I love the way he sparks stuff for me. I pondered his words and figured I’d been giving for 21 years now and yet I’m not financially abundant. Then, somewhere along the path of choosing the articles that are in this issue, the penny dropped for me – I have been giving all the while but have been having a bit of a tantrum from time to time too – being really grumpy with God that I have been giving but not getting in return. ‘It’s not fair.’ Hmmm… victim, martyr …

So now, again harking back to the articles, I have opened my heart more, I feel more connection with Mother Earth, I am listening better to my soul – I suddenly know how to give my gifts without strings and expectations, with an open heart and in gratitude for the gifts that I have been given. If anyone’s come of age here, it’s me! Oh, and maybe I’ve been publishing for 21 years for my own sake. I’ve certainly learnt a thing or two – and I hope you have also.

We have an interesting reader round-table this issue. I invited comment in an email to lots of people recently, comment on the ‘law of attraction’ – whether it works or not. I got 39 responses, including 20 full articles. You’ll find snippets from 19 of them in the magazine, and many more on our website, including some of the articles. It was wonderful to see how the heart and soul theme came out in these pieces too.

By the way, while the reader round-table represented a lot more work for me – and I need that like a hole in the head ;-), I think it produced a very worthwhile result. If you’d like to see a certain topic discussed, please let me know and I could email that out too. Also, if you’d like to subscribe to our email newsletters, so that you can find out about these things before they make it to the page, please subscribe on our website.

Speaking of our website, you’ll see that we’ve got a new facelift now, and that we’re celebrating our 21st birthday by giving away so much – see the purple ads through this magazine. Please take advantage of the various significant freebies, and look at the cheap things while you are there too. Have a look also at our Courses, Workshops, Events (CWE) website (which you can hop to from our main website). It’s brand new. There are only a couple of offerings on it as yet, but they are yummy ones. You may like to subscribe to the CWE newsletter while you are there too.

I’ll leave you with words of wisdom from Stella, “Embrace the cooler weather and long dark evenings and snuggle up in bed with a good book and a mug of hot chocolate. Take the opportunity to slow down, rest and meditate and refuse to be rushed or pressured.” Hmmm… chocolate again.

 

With love,

Jewell

 
Using the Universe to help you promote your business
Sunday, 13 June 2010 22:29
Hello

Over nearly 21 years of publishing in this niche I have heard many advertising success stories – and failures too. There are often practical reasons why an ad works or doesn’t – to do with the copy used, especially headlines, the size, colour, placement, repetition, etc. However, my observations are that being in tune with the Universe has more to do with it than these and more than we might realise. I’ll list a few examples further down. Pardon that I couch them in negative terms, but they are easier to see that way.

Here’s what I cover below:

     The internet hampers synchronicity
     A man publishes a new paper just because the net hinders synchronicity!
     My observations of advertising failures when out of step with universal laws
     The internet and your results
     Cheap online presence about to get cheaper or free with LivingNow
     The déjà vu effect

The internet hampers synchronicity

Weird eh? Not really when you think about it. I observed a little while ago when an organisation took a very large ad to promote the visit of their famous teacher to Australia that the first month they had no actual details of the tour, even though they had buckets of room on their ad. They relied instead on people going to their website. Now, in this day and age readers certainly do (more of that below), but, apart from the proportion of people who do not use the internet, they were missing out on synchronicity. How? Imagine two friends having a coffee and they flick through the magazine together. Their eyes light upon the event, they see it is on the 23rd, say, and in a venue accessible to them, and they decide right there and then that they will go together. Individually they would not necessarily have gone.

A man publishes a new newspaper just because the internet hinders synchronicity!

My daughter Emma heard an interview on radio the other day with a guy, Ross Floate, who is starting a new free newspaper in Melbourne, "And Now It's In Print", based on finding what’s good on the internet and publishing it in print. The interviewer was puzzled about this – why would he do it when the internet is free and so readily available?

Ross and his business partners believe that print allows synchronicity to work seeing that, when we surf the net, we THINK we know what we are looking for. When we see things in print, if something catches our eye, it can be more of an ‘aha’ experience. Many people tell me they saw something three times* and just knew they were meant to do it. I’ve even heard a few people say they stick pins into the pages to see what they should do ;-)

My observations of advertising failures when out of step with universal laws

• If you have ‘stuff’ happening in your life, the Universe protects you from overwhelm and stops your phone ringing and emails popping in until such time as you can cope with the extra work.

• If you are unsure of your product, path or service, or you don’t have the premises organised yet, then you don’t put out the proper intention to be fulfilled.

• Even not having a date specified in your ad can put out a wobbly intention, e.g., you think, “I’ll just put out that I will offer this workshop and if I get people then I will make a date”.

• Belief that the ad will not work for some reason, e.g., you don’t like the colour it printed, or the page it was on, or your friend said something negative. Once you get it into your mind that the ad will not work, that’s what you get. I know that sounds too simplistic, but I have seen that happen so many times over the years that I actually had a section about this in my book, Seven Angels Helped Me, as an example of how powerful our thoughts are. So it is a good idea to look at your ad on the page in a loving way, send loving vibrations to it – reiki if you have that ability.

The internet and your results

We all love the internet and could not do without it. However, it has largely removed your opportunity to speak with prospective clients personally.

When people see your ad in print, they will google you rather than ring you. Even if you don’t list a website, they will still see what they can do to find out about you on the net. If what they find does not suit them for one reason or another, then you will likely never know that they were looking at you. If they buy from you, they will tell you that they found you on line. They do not tell you, unless you dig it out of them, that your magazine ad prompted them to look for you on line.

(A 2007 American survey showed that 46% of people who went to a search engine to look someone up did so as a result of seeing a magazine ad. I imagine that is even bigger these days, don’t you?)

So just beware of that phenomenon when advertising in print. You can no longer judge the efficacy of the ad by the phone ringing.

Cheap online presence about to get cheaper or free

Also, of course, it means that you need a good presence on line. We have cheap websites combined with premium listings on livingnow.com.au, and they are about to get even cheaper. Also, coming by the end of June, we have significant online freebies to give away on our site which will, by then, have a revamp. So you can email Justine, This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it , and ask her to let you know when the renovations and extensions are finished.

Warm wishes
Elizabeth Jewell (previously Stephens)

* The déjà vu effect
You can aid this process by taking advantage of our permanent offer of ‘buy two and get the third free’ in our People Pages. We call it the déjà vu effect. It certainly works, especially if you use a photo or logo in your ad, as people see your picture bobbing up everywhere. Email This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it if you want the ad rates.

 
Dear Fellow Travellers
Tuesday, 01 June 2010 10:00

This is the most important magazine I’ve ever published. If you take the time to read all the articles, you cannot fail to move forward, to grow – well, as long as you are prepared to shift.

First of all you need to be in balance physically. I’ve found this when following Jost Sauer’s 24 hour chi cycle. Although it is outwardly a physical regime, I feel more connected with the Universe when I am following it to the letter. Sadly, I slip quite often due to print deadlines!

In his article in this issue, Jost in fact explains why I’ve experienced the better connection: “Our hun, or ethereal soul, travels to the astral world and returns with advice about why we are here. Our soul purpose becomes clearer, and each day we are more in flow with who we really are and what our destiny is, and our actions will reflect this. As the soul comes fully forward, you will feel fulfilled, and happiness and joy arise. You will understand the meaning of your life and what you really need will come to you.”

This ‘connection when in balance’ idea is taken further in a tiny article about Peruvian shamans and a balancing ritual you can undertake: “Central to their cosmology is the understanding that the universe is benign, and only seems predatory when we are out of balance. They believe that the world mirrors back our own state of ayni or right relationship. Coming back into ayni, allows the Universe to work on our behalf once again, restoring the flow of synchronicity.”

Then Chip Richards beautifully illustrates the same point in his encounter with dolphins, but I cannot tell you more here or it will spoil the story for you.

The big theme which just evolved for this issue a few weeks ago is happiness. Oh, I am so delighted with the way this has panned out. We have different perspectives here, and so profound and thought-provoking. In fact, we could not fit all the articles in this print edition. So there are more on our website. Just search under the articles for the word ‘happiness’ and see the ones with the current dates.

Eckhart Tolle has this to say about happiness in The Power of Now: “So in the unenlightened, mind-identified condition, what is sometimes wrongly called joy is the usually short-lived pleasure side of the continuously alternating pain/pleasure cycle. Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas joy arises from within. The very thing that gives you pleasure today will give you pain tomorrow, or it will leave you, so its absence will give you pain.”

As far as our happiness authors this issue, the bon mots coming from their pens are abundant. I really do urge you to read the full articles for yourself, as the time has well and truly come for us all to step up, especially as we approach 2012. Here are a few happiness tidbits to whet your appetites:

 

Jason Shulman:

* What I only slowly began to understand was that spiritual happiness is not the absence of anything.

* We only see happiness in negative terms, as the absence of something. This makes happiness very elusive because conditions have to be just right. If conditions are not right then we can’t find happiness.

* So true happiness – if we can think about this for a second – has no opposite pole. Ordinary happiness, which we all want and is a good thing as well, always has an opposite pole.

Hugh Mackay:

* “How can I become happier?” is a classic sign that we’ve missed the point. (“How can I be more useful?” might be getting warm.)

* To be fully human – to be ‘normal’ – is to be occasionally engulfed by waves of grief or sadness, and stymied by feelings of despair, doubt or disappointment.

* It’s easy to be sceptical about the pursuit of happiness, partly because happiness – at least as that term is commonly used in the modern world – is one of the most passive, elusive and unpredictable of emotions, but also because many people report that their most significant personal growth and development has come from pain, not pleasure.

True Indigo:

* Happiness is love measured in gratitude.

* When happiness is a desire, then it expresses an un-state of being happy. When it is a “goal” it is something “out there” that needs to be chased. Happiness is being happy.

* Any ‘law’ of attraction built upon promoting want and desire as a way toward abundance will result only in a happiness deficit being created, maintained, fed, and enlarged.

* Anyone who can feel love can feel happy. Anyone who wants to feel love more minutes of the day can feel happy more minutes of the day. There seems to be some kind of stunning misunderstanding that any of this is difficult. The proof has to be simple or the theory can’t be true.

* At the moment the self understands it cannot trust either the ego or external objects to bring it true happiness, it begins manufacturing happiness on its own. It takes responsibility for its own emotional state. Getting what you want actually makes you unhappy.

Hmmm… What do you think about happiness? Is it something we can drum up at will? Are we the victims of our circumstances? Is happiness all that we should want? What is happiness really? Have fun on this rewarding journey.

 

With love

 
Dear Fellow Travellers
Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:53
Welcome to this May, 2010, issue, and the theme this issue is women and children, in honour of Mothers Day. Some of us have a difficult relationship with our mothers, judging them to be insufficient or too possessive or having any number of defects. However, I learnt through Family Constellations that we need to come to terms with our parents and, whatever their wrongdoings, actual or perceived, before we ourselves can move on, we need to honour them as parents and at least thank them for allowing us to incarnate.

I have also learnt over the years (and had it nailed into place by William Whitecloud) that we come into this life in order to create a dysfunction or two so that we can work – and grow – through our ‘stories’. It is very likely to be parents who, in letting us down, or even abusing us, create the baddie of our story. This is perfect. We then have a focus for our growth.

If that sounds abhorrent to you, just think – we are all here to evolve – and how hard would it be if everything were hunky dory all our days? By being in relationship with other people we get our buttons pushed and our feathers stroked and we find out what makes us tick and, further, our love relationships (familial and romantic) offer a chance for us to grasp the concept of the love of the universe – or whatever you may be comfy with calling the godforce.

Consider this – if your relationship with your mother is not one of love, then what of the Mother Earth? Do you have a good relationship with Gaia? Before you poo-poo this concept, think about the fact that organised religion, eons ago, did everything it could to ensure that you would think this a foolish notion, to revere the earth mother. I want to recommend to you that you read the article on sexuality and the dark moon by Janine McDonald for more information relating to this. It is a strong read, with some concepts that may be hard for you to accept, but, if you haven’t come across the Lilith story in your travels, you will find your mind opened to a new slant on women – well, that is if you start your reading with the idea that you will keep an open mind.

Then Chip Richards gives us a very beautiful step into Mother Earth’s bosom, while I would have you sit in her lap in my column on courage in this issue.

Real mothers – and women generally – are honoured all through this issue too, starting with a beautiful article by Michael Riordan whose wife Stella died just over a year ago from breast cancer. It’s a must-read and he achieves something that many cannot – exposing bare emotions in writing.

Mothering is hard enough at times, but what if your child were disabled? Monique Nazzari has a belief that mothering her autistic son is a spiritual gift – that’s a beautiful example of growing because of our circumstances, our ‘stories’.

Speaking of autism, Martin Oliver writes about the possible connection between autism and toxins in our environment – and especially those which are injected with vaccination. There is no knowing what the side-effects are from these things we administer to our kids, and my husband and I made a conscious decision not to have our children vaccinated, although I admit we succumbed to Salk vaccine when there was a polio outbreak in the next suburb back in the late 1970s – so you can see that I’d be the last to judge you if you also succumbed to pressure of the media, vocal members of the community and the pharmaceutical industry’s propaganda. Why don’t you check out the AVN – I popped their ad near Martin’s article as it was relevant – they have so much information available to help you make an informed decision.

There are homoeopathic alternatives to vaccination and, indeed, if you feel you have to vaccinate, then there are homoeopathic remedies to lessen the effects of the drugs. There are always natural alternatives to mainstream medical ideas – I pumped colloidal minerals into my kids (much to the chagrin of my mother – bless her for her concern) and my oldest daughter, Emma, was over 12 before she ever had an antibiotic, while the other two were over 10. 

Oh, I’m changing my name. I’m reverting to my birth surname. It is now just over two years since my husband left, and, while I enjoyed being a Stephens for over 40 years, it is now a name that doesn’t serve me, except for the fact that my children are all Stephens kids of course.

My birth name was Elizabeth Jewell, and so I am going to tap into my original incarnation energy.

Speaking of these things, I am running a discussion group on adoption at each of the forthcoming Mind Body Spirit Festivals in Sydney, Melbourne and Brisbane. The Sydney one is in May at Darling Harbour (see the cheap entry coupon on p.13 of this magazine) and my session is on Thursday, 13th May at 4.30. If you’d like to join in – especially relevant if you are part of the adoption triangle – I’d love to see you there.

With love



 
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