1. Suspend your beliefs.
You are all experts, but being an expert will stop you from hearing something different. The minute you say “I know” you will learn nothing. Put your learner’s hat back on and be open to hearing something differently. You already know 98%, it is only 1-2% that is new and will make the difference.
2. Quit trying harder.
Apply the law of least effort – let things flow and if they are not, then maybe you are on the wrong track!
3. Change your focus
– or at least your peripheral vision and choose a different set of risks. The ones that have got you here will not get you to where you want to go next.
4. Have faith
– there are unseen forces at work. If you spend your energy on the “how to” you will lose track of the “why”.
5. Embrace uncertainty
– you never grow in your comfort zone. If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.
6. Find your gift.
Your brilliance is in your blind spot so work on finding it and using your gift to make your life a masterpiece.
7. Ask a better question.
Questions are like a Google search of your brain so if you want a great answer you must ask a great question. Beware of your unconscious negative self talk.
8. Do whatever it takes
and never give up on your dreams.
Enjoy these….and use them! Pass them on.
Dr Buzz McCarthy is a psychoneurologist and relationship strategist. She is author of Internet Dating: Men to Avoid Men to Enjoy.
Share this post