Spiritually strong relationships

Seven steps to becoming spiritually strong in relationships

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Mynoo’s seven steps have been applied successfully by hundreds of people around the world. They have managed happy breakups, rekindled romance, and reunited with their siblings, parents and friends.


I married my childhood sweetheart and from the first year of marriage he transformed into a split personality. He would be either intensely loving or violent, leaving me to cope with a yo-yo experience, not knowing whether I was going to meet Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. The birth of our child only exacerbated the situation.

In my next relationship, another catastrophe occurred. My tall, handsome, genius partner suffered a massive stroke and transformed from a strong, loving, powerful leader, lover and father into a helpless, dependent child. In other relationships, I experienced sibling rivalry, work-related narcissistic competitiveness, espionage, betrayal of trust, abandonment, bullying and so on.

Through my ‘journey into miracles’, I connected to my spirit and spirituality. From this experience I have distilled these seven key steps that have made me strong and powerful in all of my relationships. The surprising results continue to enrich me as I rejoice in celebrating gorgeous, exquisite and enchanting relationships. Try them for yourself.

Step 1: There is only YOU

Your world is a reflection of what is going on within you. If you are agitated and anxious, your relationships and your experiences reflect more worry and agitation. To transform your external relationships, focus on transforming you. Bring more joy into your life, and the people and your experiences will become more joyful. It all begins with you.

Step 2: You are love

Love is not outside of you. It is not about loving another, or someone loving you. The core vibration of being human is BEING LOVE. When you BE love, you magnetise love, you will be loved and you become the beloved.

Step 3: It’s a vibration game

Whatever you desire is delivered into your energetic vortex. Once your vibrational frequency matches the frequency of your desires, they will be accessible to you. It is a game of matching vibrational frequencies. The key is to be aware and consciously do all you can to maintain a high vibration. Consider your feelings about the relationships that cause you hurt and upset and look for the gifts you received through those traumatic experiences, gifts such as developing strength, independence, insight and so on. Focusing on gratitude lifts your vibration.

Step 4: Whatever you give energy to, you get more of

Consciously choose what you want more of in your life. Regardless of circumstances or the type of relationship chaos you may be dealing with, find in that moment what is present around you that makes your heart smile, makes you happy. Be on a constant rampage of gratitude. You will get more and more to be grateful for, even in relationships.

Step 5: We are all magnificent beings in human disguise, and it’s the human disguise that gets fractured

When I realised this truth, I was shocked to find that most relationships get stuck because of the fractured disguise, and, when they do go wrong, it’s only because we forgot to connect to each other’s magnificence. When we unconditionally accept what is and embrace our own, as well as the other person’s fractured human disguise, this instantly connects us to our own and their magnificence and magical, loving connections unfold almost instantly. This is the time to reclaim our inner truth, which is the magnificent beauty of our soul.

I applied this to my most challenging relationship, with my ex-husband. Once I had embraced his fractured human disguise, the one that had beat me up, and my own disguise, the one that tolerated this for ten years, I was able to connect to our magnificence again. This transformed my vibration to the pure essence of love and compassion and resulted in my living an extraordinary life with ease, joy and grace.

Step 6: Be truly, madly, deeply in love with you

When we believe there is something missing and incomplete, we seek to find someone who will complete us. The relationships that come together as a result are filling a gap, a need or a void, and are fragile. When the going gets tough, the gap gets bigger and the relationships often get destabilised. The way to feel whole and complete is by first becoming truly in love with yourself, every part of you, every aspect of you. When you do this, you become a magnet for relationships of equals, of true, loving partnerships, where you come together to co-create your life together.

Step 7: Reclaim the power of choice

Only you choose how happy or sad you are. If you are in a relationship that is distressing to you, you are choosing to remain in that relationship. You have given away your joy and happiness to a relationship that distresses you. The power is yours; take it back and choose to find what makes you happy. Only you can do that. The sooner you wake up to the fact that you are all-powerful and that you are the one in control of how your life turns out, the faster you will enrich your experiences with all that you desire. So take back your power, shed the victim cloak and embrace the magnificent beauty that you are.


As a high-flying executive and pragmatic serial entrepreneur in Europe, Asia and Australia, Mynoo has built eight businesses, produced 15 feature films for Bollywood and Hollywood and co-founded the renowned Inspired Leaders Network. In 2010, Mynoo went through a series of spiritual awakenings through which she reconnected with the true mission of her soul. She then undertook for herself what has now become the ‘Journey Into Miracles’, actively applied the received wisdom to her own life, became her own ‘guru’ and transformed, almost beyond recognition. Mynoo is author of The BE Book (Panoma Press).


Her journeys, for herself and with others, have been expanding ever since 2010. She is now the visionary founder of The PoEM (The Palace of Extraordinary Miracles), a movement and for-benefit organisation that focuses on making miracles the norm. It is Mynoo’s great joy to share what she has learnt with the world, to inspire people to follow their own deep inner guidance and wisdom, and to understand that, ultimately, they are the ‘guru’ they have long been waiting for.

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